Salary Scenarios
The following table breaks down the reality of income versus lifestyle. These figures are net income (take-home pay) estimates for a single filer, factoring in federal tax, CA state tax, FICA, and an estimate for health insurance premiums.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income (Net Annual) |
Family Income (Net Annual) |
| Frugal |
$45,000 |
$75,000 |
| Moderate |
$85,000 |
$140,000 |
| Comfortable |
$120,000+ |
$200,000+ |
Frugal Scenario (Single: $45k / Family: $75k)
This is the grind. For a single person at $45k net, you are living in a shared room or a rent-controlled studio, likely with a roommate situation you hate. You are on a strict grocery budget of $400 a month, cooking every meal. You do not have a car payment because you cannot afford gas and insurance; you take the bus or walk. Any "night out" involves a happy hour special or a BYOB spot. You are not saving significantly. For a family at $75k net, this is poverty level in Berkeley. You are likely in subsidized housing or a multi-generational home. You are cutting coupons, utilizing food banks, and relying on public schools entirely. One medical emergency wipes out your year.
Moderate Scenario (Single: $85k / Family: $140k)
This is the "I made it" trap. For a single earner at $85k net (~$130k gross), you can afford a decent 1BR apartment for $2,900, leaving you roughly $4,200 a month for everything else. You can eat out once a week, maintain a car with a modest payment, and save a bit. However, you are still one major unexpected cost away from stress. You cannot afford to buy a home. For a family at $140k net, you are in a 2BR rental for $3,200. Childcare costs ($1,500+ per child) will destroy your budget. You are constantly juggling bills. You are "middle class" on paper, but you feel broke because the cost of two adults and a child in this city is astronomical.
Comfortable Scenario (Single: $120k / Family: $200k)
This is the actual entry point for stability. For a single earner at $120k net (~$200k gross), you can afford a $3,500 apartment without sweating it. You can max out a Roth IRA, contribute to a 401k, and have a car payment for a reliable vehicle. You can afford the $150 gym membership and the $80 dinner. You are insulated from the daily nickel and diming. For a family at $200k net, you can finally consider buying a home, albeit a starter home that needs work. You can afford decent childcare and a vacation once a year. You aren't rich, but you are no longer playing defense with your finances.