Salary Scenarios: The Numbers You Need
Here is a breakdown of what different lifestyles actually require in terms of gross income. This is based on the 30/30/40 budget rule (30% housing, 30% other living, 20% taxes, 20% savings/debt). These are the real-world numbers, not pleasant fantasies.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income Needed |
Family Income (2 Adults, 2 Kids) |
| Frugal |
$38,000 |
$65,000 |
| Moderate |
$52,000 |
$85,000 |
| Comfortable |
$70,000 |
$120,000 |
Frugal Scenario Analysis (Single: $38k, Family: $65k):
This is a survival budget. For a single person at $38,000, you are living in a modest one-bedroom rental, driving a paid-off older car, cooking nearly all your meals at home, and have a minimal entertainment budget. Every dollar is accounted for, and a single major unexpected expense (a $1,200 HVAC repair) puts you in debt. For a family earning $65,000, this means a tight 3-bedroom rental, no private school or daycare, and significant reliance on budgeting apps. You are constantly making trade-offs, and a vacation is a staycation. There is zero financial buffer.
Moderate Scenario Analysis (Single: $52k, Family: $85k):
This is the baseline for actual living, not just surviving. A single earner at $52,000 can afford a decent 2-bedroom apartment or a modest starter home (with a careful eye on insurance), a reliable used car payment, and a reasonable social life. You can save for retirement, but it's a conscious, monthly struggle. You can afford a $150 gym membership and a $200 monthly dining-out budget. A family at $85,000 can manage a mortgage on a $250,000 home, two reliable cars, and can likely afford public preschool or after-school care. They can take one modest family vacation a year. They are not living paycheck to paycheck, but they are one major job loss away from serious trouble.
Comfortable Scenario Analysis (Single: $70k, Family: $120k):
This is where you finally achieve financial breathing room. At $70,000, a single person can afford a nice rental or a home in a safer, lower-risk area. They can max out a Roth IRA, handle a $1,000 emergency without stress, and afford high-quality groceries and regular travel. For a family earning $120,000, this is the sweet spot. They can afford a $400,000 home (with a robust insurance portfolio), two new car payments, private school or full-time daycare, and a healthy savings account. They can handle the $5,000 wind deductible without it being a catastrophe. They are actively building wealth and are insulated from the daily financial shocks that plague the lower tiers. This is the income level where you stop worrying about the cost of milk and start planning for the future.