Salary Scenarios
Here is the breakdown of what you actually need to earn to survive versus thrive. These numbers are gross income (pre-tax) and assume you are following the rule of spending 30% of your gross income on housing.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income |
Family Income (4) |
| Frugal |
$36,000 |
$55,000 |
| Moderate |
$55,000 |
$85,000 |
| Comfortable |
$75,000 |
$115,000 |
Scenario Analysis
Frugal ($36k Single / $55k Family): This is the razor's edge. At $36,000, your monthly take-home pay is roughly $2,400. You are spending $1,000 on rent for a small apartment (if you can find it). You have $1,400 left for everything else. This budget requires strict discipline: cooking at home 95% of the time, driving a paid-off car, and having zero consumer debt. One major car repair or medical bill destroys this budget. For a family of four on $55,000, you are likely relying on government assistance programs or a very strict meal plan. You are not saving for college.
Moderate ($55k Single / $85k Family): This is the baseline for a stable life. At $55,000, you are taking home around $3,600. You can afford a $1,300 mortgage or rent payment, leaving $2,300 for utilities, gas, food, and savings. You can save for retirement (aiming for 10-15%), afford a modest car payment, and go out to dinner occasionally without panic. A family of four at $85,000 is doing okay, but childcare costs (if applicable) will eat a massive chunk of that, likely forcing you to budget tightly on groceries and entertainment.
Comfortable ($75k Single / $115k Family): This is where you stop surviving and start building wealth. At $75,000, you have a take-home of roughly $4,800. You can afford a mortgage on a home priced above the median, perhaps $1,800/month, while still maxing out a Roth IRA and having a healthy emergency fund. You can absorb a $2,000 unexpected expense without it ruining your year. For a family at $115,000, this allows for a single income earner if the other parent stays home, or significant savings and college funding for kids if both work. You can afford the gym, the occasional weekend trip, and the higher-quality groceries without scrutinizing every receipt.