Salary Scenarios
The following table breaks down the required gross income to achieve specific lifestyles. These figures assume a standard tax burden (Federal + MO State + FICA) and a housing cost that aligns with the lifestyle (Rent for Frugal/Moderate, Mortgage+Taxes for Comfortable).
| Lifestyle |
Single Income Required |
Family Income (2 Adults, 2 Kids) |
Notes |
| Frugal |
$38,000 |
$65,000 |
Strict budgeting, roommates or old apartment, minimal eating out, used car. |
| Moderate |
$55,000 |
$95,000 |
Decent 1BR/2BR, own car, dining out 2x/week, savings contribution. |
| Comfortable |
$82,000 |
$145,000+ |
Mortgage on median home, newer car, maxing 401k, frequent leisure, private school options. |
Frugal Analysis:
To live on $38,000 as a single person, you are playing defense. This number assumes you are renting a one-bedroom for $1,050 or splitting a two-bedroom for $650. You are likely cooking 90% of your meals at home and driving a paid-off car. You can save money, but one emergency (car repair, medical bill) wipes out your liquidity. You cannot afford to buy a home at the median price on this salary; the mortgage payment would be roughly $2,200 (including taxes/insurance), which is 70% of your take-home pay. This is survival mode, not stability.
Moderate Analysis:
At $55,000, you gain breathing room. You can afford a decent apartment without a roommate, perhaps in Midtown or the Northland. You can afford a $350 car payment and full coverage insurance ($120/month). You can contribute 5-6% to a 401k. However, you are still priced out of the median home market unless you have a significant down payment. The mortgage on a $285,000 home would require an income closer to $75,000 comfortably. This salary tier is where the "Kansas City is cheap" myth starts to crack; you live okay, but building wealth through homeownership is difficult without a partner’s income.
Comfortable Analysis:
$82,000 is the magic number for a single person to truly live well and build net worth. This allows you to carry a mortgage on a $285,000-$320,000 home. With a 20% down payment, your PITI (Principal, Interest, Taxes, Insurance) is roughly $1,800-$1,900, which is roughly 30% of your gross income—manageable. You can max out a Roth IRA, drive a new car, and not flinch at a $150 dinner bill. For a family, the jump to $145,000 is non-negotiable. Childcare in KC is expensive (often $1,200/month per child), and the tax bracket increase hits hard. If you are a family making under $100,000, you are likely relying on public schools and strict budgeting, or you are house-poor.