Salary Scenarios
The following table outlines the raw financial requirements for different lifestyles. Note that "Single Income" assumes one earner, while "Family Income" assumes two earners contributing to the household.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income |
Family Income |
| Frugal |
$65,000 |
$90,000 |
| Moderate |
$105,000 |
$165,000 |
| Comfortable |
$160,000 |
$250,000 |
Frugal Scenario (Single: $65k, Family: $90k)
At this level, you are surviving, not living. A single earner at $65,000 clears roughly $4,000 a month after taxes (assuming no 401k contributions). Rent for a two-bedroom (if a family) is $2,601, leaving $1,399 for everything else. This is untenable. You will likely need to live with roommates or in a much older, smaller unit. You will cook every meal, rarely drive, and avoid any social spending. This scenario relies heavily on debt accumulation to cover emergencies. It is a high-stress existence where one car repair ends the month.
Moderate Scenario (Single: $105k, Family: $165k)
This is the "keep up with the Joneses" struggle. A single earner at $105,000 takes home approximately $6,200 monthly. After $2,601 rent, you have $3,599. You can afford a car payment, insurance, and decent groceries. You might even save $500 a month if you are disciplined. However, you are likely capped at renting. Buying a home on this income is mathematically impossible without a massive down payment. You can go out to eat occasionally, but a $150 dinner bill will sting. You are secure, but you are one bad month away from dipping into savings.
Comfortable Scenario (Single: $160k, Family: $250k)
At $160,000, you take home roughly $9,000 monthly. This allows you to rent a nicer place, save aggressively ($1,500+), and absorb the hidden costs without panic. You can afford the $4,000 insurance premiums and the $300 gas bills. However, even at this income, buying a median home ($950k) is a stretch. You would need to spend over 50% of your take-home pay on housing to buy, which is financially reckless. In the family scenario at $250,000, buying becomes possible, but only if you have significant savings to offset the mortgage. You have financial breathing room, but you are still acutely aware of the high cost of every single decision.