Salary Scenarios
To survive here, you need a salary strategy that accounts for the bleed. Below is a breakdown of what you actually need to bring home to maintain specific lifestyles. Note that "Single Income" is for one adult; "Family Income" assumes two adults with two children.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income Needed (Annual) |
Family Income Needed (Annual) |
| Frugal |
$65,000 |
$110,000 |
| Moderate |
$85,000 |
$155,000 |
| Comfortable |
$120,000+ |
$220,000+ |
Scenario Analysis
Frugal: The Survival Mode
At $65,000 for a single earner, you are surviving, not thriving. You are likely living with a roommate or in a studio apartment, keeping your housing cost around $1,100/month. You are cooking 90% of your meals at home to avoid the grocery markup and eating out maybe once a week at budget spots. Your car is likely older, and you are aggressively paying down debt. There is very little room for error here; one medical emergency or car repair wipes out your savings. For a family at $110,000, this is a tightrope walk. You are likely in a suburb far from town, dealing with a long commute, and utilizing public schools exclusively. You are budgeting strictly for groceries and likely receiving some form of tax break or assistance.
Moderate: The Treading Water
Earning $85,000 as a single person puts you in a decent one-bedroom apartment ($1,700/month). You can afford a reliable car payment and gas, and you likely eat out a few times a week without panic. You are contributing to a 401(k), but probably not the maximum. You can save, but "wealth building" is slow. For a family earning $155,000, this is the "middle class" struggle. You are likely renting a 2-bedroom or a small townhouse. Childcare costs (if applicable) will eat roughly $1,200-$1,800 of this monthly income. You are comfortable, but buying a home feels like a distant fantasy unless you have a large external down payment source.
Comfortable: The Breathing Room
To be truly comfortable, a single earner needs to crack $120,000. At this level, you can afford a nice 1-bedroom or a 2-bedroom with a view, max out your retirement contributions, and travel occasionally. You can afford the "island tax" on nights out and hobbies without checking your bank balance. For a family to reach this level of security, they need $220,000. This allows for a mortgage on a modest home (likely $600k - $800k range, which requires sacrifice in location or size), private school or extensive extracurriculars for the kids, and a robust savings plan. Even here, the cost of living acts as an anchor; you are doing well, but you are not accumulating wealth at the rate you would in a lower-cost mainland city with the same income.