Salary Scenarios
The following table breaks down what you actually take home versus what you need to spend. Note that the "Single Income" figures are the gross salary required to support the lifestyle, while the "Family Income" assumes two earners pooling resources to maintain that standard of living.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income (Gross) |
Family Income (Gross) |
| Frugal |
$42,000 |
$65,000 |
| Moderate |
$60,000 |
$95,000 |
| Comfortable |
$85,000 |
$140,000 |
Frugal Scenario Analysis
To survive on a single income of $42,000, you are essentially living on the edge. After taxes (Federal + State + FICA), your take-home is roughly $32,000 or $2,666 a month. This budget requires you to rent a one-bedroom apartment for $1,005, leaving you $1,661 for everything else. You are driving a paid-off car because a $400 car payment would destroy this budget. You are cooking at home 90% of the time. You have zero room for a mortgage in this bracket unless you have a massive down payment. You are one major medical emergency away from debt. For a family to live this way on $65,000, you are strictly budgeting, relying on public schools, and likely skipping the savings account to cover childcare.
Moderate Scenario Analysis
This is the "median" trap. A single earner making $60,000 takes home about $45,000 ($3,750/month). You can afford the $1,222 two-bedroom rental, but you are still renting. You can afford a car payment of $350 and decent insurance. You can go out to eat twice a month. However, you are likely not maxing out your 401k. You are saving, but slowly. For a family earning $95,000, you are likely living in the suburbs in a starter home. You are feeling the squeeze of the $2,730 property tax bill and the rising cost of groceries. You are comfortable, but you are constantly managing the calendar to ensure you don't overspend in any given week.
Comfortable Scenario Analysis
At $85,000 single income, you cross the threshold into actual comfort. Take-home is around $64,000 ($5,333/month). You can afford a mortgage on a $350,000 home with a $1,800 monthly payment (including taxes and insurance) and still have $3,500 left for life. You can max out an IRA, have a robust emergency fund, and drive a reliable new car. You aren't wealthy, but you are insulated from the "gotcha" costs. For a family earning $140,000, this is the tier where you breathe easy. You can afford private school if you choose, vacations, and you are aggressively attacking any debt. This is the income level where Albuquerque's low cost of living (relative to salary) actually starts to make sense.