Salary Scenarios
To truly understand if you can make it in Norfolk, we need to run the numbers through different lifestyle filters. The table below breaks down what you actually need to take home to survive versus thrive.
| Lifestyle |
Single Income (Gross) |
Family Income (Gross) |
Notes |
| Frugal |
$32,000 - $38,000 |
$55,000 - $65,000 |
Strict budgeting. Renting a modest apartment, driving an older car, minimal dining out. |
| Moderate |
$45,000 - $55,000 |
$75,000 - $90,000 |
Comfortable renting or buying a starter home (under $250k). Some savings and leisure. |
| Comfortable |
$70,000+ |
$110,000+ |
Buying a median home ($275k+), new car lease/solid financing, maxing retirement. |
Frugal Analysis:
To live frugally in Norfolk, you are essentially treading water. A single person earning $32,000 takes home roughly $2,200 - $2,400 monthly after taxes (depending on deductions). You can find an apartment for $800 - $900, leaving you $1,300 for everything else. This is doable, but there is zero margin for error. A $1,000 car repair or medical deductible wipes out a month of savings. For a family of four on $55,000, this is poverty-adjacent. You are strictly budgeting groceries to $150/week and likely relying on public schools for everything. You cannot afford a mortgage on this income without being house-poor.
Moderate Analysis:
This is the "sweet spot" for Norfolk. A single earner making $50,000 has a monthly take-home of roughly $3,200. If they spend $1,200 on housing (renting a nicer place or paying a mortgage on a cheaper home), they still have $2,000 left for utilities, gas, and saving. This allows for a decent car payment and a few hobbies. For a family earning $80,000, they can afford the median $275,000 home, but the property tax and insurance will eat roughly $600 - $700 of that monthly budget. They live well, but they aren't banking a fortune. They are the demographic that feels "middle class" but worries about college tuition.
Comfortable Analysis:
To be truly comfortable—to have a new car, eat out without checking the bill, max out a 401k, and afford the median home price without stress—you need significant income. A single person needs to clear $70,000. At this level, the lower cost of living index works in your favor. Your money goes much further than it would in Chicago or Denver. You can afford the $275,000 home, pay the heavy property taxes, and still have plenty of cash flow. For a family, crossing the $110,000 threshold unlocks a lifestyle where you don't have to say "no" to the kids often. You are effectively wealthy by Norfolk standards, insulated from the daily price hikes that crush the median earner.