Updated Jan 2026

Best Cities for LGBTQ+ Families Inclusive and safe

Progressive, safe, and welcoming communities.

2026 Rankings at a Glance

Rank City State Population Median Income Action
1
New York ★ Top Pick
NY 8,258,035 $76,577
2
CA 3,820,963 $79,701
3
IL 2,664,454 $74,474
4
TX 2,311,461 $62,637
5
AZ 1,650,051 $79,664
6
PA 1,550,542 $60,302
7
TX 1,495,312 $62,322
8
CA 1,388,312 $105,780
9
TX 1,302,859 $70,121
10
FL 985,837 $68,069
11
TX 976,932 $77,082
12
CA 969,615 $136,229
13
TX 979,700 $91,501
14
NC 911,307 $80,581
15
OH 909,074 $62,350

How We Ranked These Cities

Cost of Living Data

Housing index, utilities, groceries, and transportation costs from Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Crime Statistics

FBI Uniform Crime Report data for violent and property crime rates per 100,000 residents.

Economic Opportunity

Median household income, unemployment rates, and job market health from Census Bureau.

Housing Market

Median home prices and rental costs from Zillow Research and Census data.

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